[ He'll never be me ]

I've been into 5 relationships. With guys. (Obviously)... I'm writing here about my previous ex and what happened back then. I'm not saying my ex is a bad person. Just that everyone made a mistake. keep in mind I'm still in contact with my exes

It's hard to reminisce the bits and pieces of it, but what the "H".

Ricky and I dated together (when I was still single lady) before he broke-up with Neo. After a few months.... I proposed Ricky twice (Hahaha... the last proposal while we were naked).

We both had a blast together.. but seems like my insecurities get the best of both of us. I asked him out a lot of many times.. so that I can be with him. And I stayed at his place almost everyday and he sent me to my workplace at STAR (Shangrila's Tanjung Aru Resort)... every mooooorning. I think he got tired of me shadowing his every step.

Then I got to know this kid from Sarawak.. namely Awin or Aluin. and eventually Ricky knew Awin as well. (Friendster is just a click away). Awin went down to KK with his family. 3 Days trip as I remembered it.
The 3 of us met the first time at Anjung Senja. The odd thing is... Ricky is sitting next to Awin..

y not me?

Over and over I asked Ricky if Awin knew that me and him are together. and the answer is still... no. That time... I knew something is wrong.

While Awin's in KK.. Ricky told me that they went out together.. a few times. and that's disturbing. Until one moment I can't stand knowing that they went out and still Awin is un-noticeable about me and Rick, I blurted out about it to Awin.

Awin was so crushed. (wonder why?) and the same goes with Ricky . I dunno. Why should Ricky be mad at me about telling the truth? Ricky erupted. He scolded me through the phone. The tantrums stll lingered in my mind. I wanted to post here. but... I can't

I was in shock mode trying to get them back as friends. I seriously have no clue why am I doing it... as the answer is there in front of me. I forced Awin to meet me. have some drinks. Apologized. and gave Awin 2 keychains as a token. Everything came back to normal.

Then one night the three of us were suppose to meet. Then Ricky told me that him and Awin will go out to tanjung aru first then would be picking me up later.

Isn't it odd? why should they be alone? my instincts went wild. I tried to call him but he refuse to answer. then he answered the last 5th time. he said he was crying. Of what?

I was imagining things. then I asked where they are.. he answered. and I know where to go. I ran from my place to that wretched gloomy beach.

I lurked behind the trees.. and saw everything.. EVERYHTING.

I called and they seem to know I was around. I stood there.. they passed me. that B**** just walked pass me without a word... A guilty pace.

Ricky had the guts to smile at me. I kept my cool down. with out a word. I almost fainted.

We were not going out finally. They figured out that I should be resting because I looked washed out (Duh!)....

I asked them to send me to the nearest cyber cafe... and Ricky... lending me his jacket. and Awin had the guts to shake my hand and smile. Like I just wanted to whipp his face with that jacket

They went off....

I texted Ricky

"I saw everything"

"We didn't do anything" he replied

" Why did u kissed him?" I answered. standing still at the pavement.

"Ok. that we need to discussed" It sounded as if it was not a big of deal. right?

So I've waited like an hour or so. I was cracking up. Nearly to commit a suicide which I rarely think about. Ricky said that he needs to accompany Awin because his parents haven't got back from somewhere. So the room to Awin's hotel is locked.

To think of it.... if I wouldn't know what had happen... would they still be waiting for Awin's room? I would be dramatizing this situation. but it could happened.

So he came eventually. I entered the car. And Ricky was sobbing saying sorry for what I saw that night. I couldnt say anything. I cant even drop a single tears. I drained my will to cry that night.

So brought me to his place (as I requested.. because I managed to get home and pack). he asked me to calm down. (Calm down?! my BF just cheated on me). I lay back. Arriving. Still blurred. We sleep that night without saying a word. As if nothing happens.

3 days after that... he broke-up with me.

To be continued....